I have never been ripped off – but I have had people write me who have been scammed. As with anything – you need to be street smart. You want to be careful in selecting an escort that the person you are dealing with will act in a professional manner.

But – she should not get the money and then need to leave the room to get something. One thing that can happen is that she gets paid – then says she forgot the condoms in her car – and then drives away. This can happen to you and there’s not a lot you can do about it – but you should ask her to leave the money if she needs to go out of the room.

Doing the Deed

At some point she will ask you if you want to “get comfortable.” This means “are you ready to have sex?” Your job now is to lead her to the bedroom and get naked. To protect herself legally, she will wait until the client is naked before she undresses. I suppose the legal idea here is that you’ve paid for a massage, but when she sees your irresistible naked body, she can no longer control herself and has to fuck you.

Most escorts don’t do anal sex, so if that’s what you want, you should say so when you call and get an escort that will do it

Relax and enjoy it. She a pro and you’re the client. This isn’t a woman you have to impress. She’s been with a lot of other men who are a lot better looking than you, and a lot worse looking than you. As far as comparing yourself to other clients, if you are clean, sober, and nice to her, and made her laugh, you’re already in the top 10% of all clients and you’re doing just fine.

If you’re nervous, you might start out with a back rub to get used to touching each other. Take your time. If this is your first time and you’re uncomfortable, you might want to agree up front that you may need extra time and work out an extra tip and agency fee so that you can take longer if necessary. That way you don’t have to rush things.

During foreplay, touch her softly like you would do with any other lover. Be romantic. Even though she is a pro, she is also a woman and her body responds like any woman’s. If you know what you’re doing, she is going to have a very good time too. Women enjoy sex and if the situations is right, they like to get their rocks off, just like you.

You want to be sensitive to what she wants. Some women don’t like you to put your finger in them. Others just love it. If she says don’t do something, don’t do it. Also, kissing on the mouth is generally a no-no, so don’t even try without asking first.

A condom is required. Don’t ask if you can skip it because VD is real and the woman doesn’t want to get it, or give it to you. However, many women don’t buy the best condoms, so if you have a brand you like, buy your own and offer to use your condoms. It will save her from having to use one of hers. It will also avoid an awkward delay if she forgets to bring one and would otherwise have to leave and run to the store to get one. This actually happens more often than it should.